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Re: Way OT:Simultaneous health failure of parents and care


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Posted by wisbaker on August 19, 2012 at 13:55:04 from (207.118.144.43):

In Reply to: Way OT:Simultaneous health failure of parents and care posted by redtom on August 18, 2012 at 21:34:48:

My dad passed a year ago this last March, it was a tough time, shortly before he went we had to make the decisions you are now, it isn't easy. Our problem was dad had re-married and one of her daughters that put her and dad through heck (twins at 16, drugs/detox, DUI's and inconsistent employment to pay for any of the above) was having a hissy fit that we were putting dad in a home. But with Dad's kids all more than 100 miles away we couldn't do much and we knew the step daughter would be to busy partying to help out. We told the step-mom that as much as we would like to keep him at home he was dying, she wasn't and he needed to go where he could get care and she wouldn't kill herself giving it to him. If your having heart problems you need to take care of yourself first, what will it do to your dad if he finds out you died trying to take care of him? That's a load of doo-doo you don't want to put on him at this point in his life, your mom won't remember but if your dad is still lucid you need to care for him AND you. Tell him you're having the heart problems he may understand you having to move them to assisted living, your mom is in LA-LA land she won't remember, may even think she's staying in a hotel while you're redecorating the house.


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