Re: OT, Thoughts On A Situation...

Posted by JD Seller on January 19, 2018 at 20:18:05 from (208.126.196.24):

In Reply to: OT, Thoughts On A Situation... posted by Bryce Frazier on January 19, 2018 at 19:13:49:

Bryce I see I am in the minority here. Does your girl friend owe her former employer the money??? No it was given as a gift. At least at the time.

Now I am going to talk to you as a husband and Father. If the $400 dollars would not be a hardship on you, I would just get a cashiers check and mail it in a certified letter to your girl friend's former employer. I would send it Certified with a Return Receipt. This way you have proof that the money was returned. I would just include a statement saying " $400 returned to xxxxx that was given to xxxxx", First blank The former employer's name. The second blank your girl friend's name. Say nothing else. The reason I would do this and in this manner is this: If you can afford it the money would be well spent to relieve your girl friend from worrying about this and her suffering unneeded stress/anger. This should be your main concern in this case. Your girl friend is going to college, unemployed unexpectedly, and dating you. ( Last I just had to include as a "stress" LOL) It is not worth the time, effort, stress, or anger in having a major battle/confrontation with the former employer. In doing it this way you and your girl friend can hold your heads high knowing neither of you are beholden to the former employer in anyway. You have taken care of/protected your girl friend. In your future your going to have this to do with your future wife and children. Taking care of the problems life throws at them and you.

As I have gotten older I have changed or mellowed out on these type of things. Yes it is easier since money is not as tight as it used to be but the main reason is I do not want or need drama in my life anymore. It just is not worth it anymore to "PROVE" I am right all of the time. I am not willing to give some one like this former employer any of my time and energy. I try an make my life as smooth as possible. I just do not sweat the small stuff anymore.

Your girl friend and you both could easily waste days/weeks of your attention and energy fooling with this former employer. So just pay the woman the amount and move on. The sun will shine brighter for you and your girl friend with this behind you. Negative people just suck the fun/brightness out of life.

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