Re: Rant for today,

Posted by Billy NY on February 02, 2015 at 21:55:39 from (104.228.35.235):

In Reply to: Rant for today, posted by jayinNY on February 02, 2015 at 10:25:49:

There is quite a bit of parallel with your situation and a long time friends, who was just able to settle the deal after years of high dollar nonsense. They had been married about the same time, knew each other before that from work at local place etc. They had 2 daughters about starting in '08 and or later. That's when she really took a hard and extremely vicious turn, exhibiting some real insanity like behavior, which does run in their family, I knew them very well myself. In these situations its best to remain neutral, being a friend. She has a high paying job and her agenda through her very nasty woman lawyer, investigation, surveillance, fueled by disposable income spared no expense to discredit and attempt to entrap her former husband, solely for her gain. No expense was spared. The payout he has to make, and the fact that her executive salary boasts a means to fuel destruction, as well as being able to generously care for the daughters, she sent in as many leaches as she could to attach to her ex., whom makes half as much. Fortunately he does have a decent job. She still cost my friend a fortune, even got into his retirement with all of this,(something I utterly despise). Its incredible what a genuinely rotten person is truly capable of. As we know there are 2 sides to this, and my friend never demonstrated any infidelity, cause, or anything by virtue of how he has behaved the entire time they were together. The list of her agenda and the details thereof, bears enough fruit to write a hard core book about the most absolute horrid things a person can do to another in this situation.

I lived through a nasty one myself, my parents. I thought that was the worst imaginable, and some of it still holds some records, but with the demeanor of her attorney, literally badgering the judge, outbursts, insanity, really makes you see how the system is easily compromised.

My advice for an attorney is that you need someone that is demonstratively talented, with a tenacity level above expectation to counter the other side as effectively as the law allows and then some.

He's got about the same extremely limited custody which is completely unfair. He's a great outdoors man and has them out with him any chance he gets, doing the same darned things we did as kids, which was all outdoors, summer and winter.

I've never understood the basis for going to war with another person, it would just be far better to find and amicable solution, fair and equitable, avoid the attorney with the exception of closing the formalities and legal documents. Its beyond belief, that someone can take another persons hard earned retirement, sure its legal, but you are the lowest form of life when you consider this form of a below the belt blow.

The kids suffer immeasurably from this, some worse than others, and its imperative that a quick amicable solution is achieved without exposing the children to the embroiled and contaminated side of this, as its a concentrated poison, administered by self righteous greed. Its truly a form of lust that is hard to comprehend, given what I have seen, someone relentlessly poised and motivated to ruin their former partner, spouse etc. Its truly sad that when things surface, its not going to work and people need to part ways, that on the exit, one or both entrench and embroil themselves with an arsenal of weapons to attack and discredit the other, in a court of law.

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