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HEY -- NO PARTY--yes, another OT post

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NC Wayne

07-12-2007 15:49:47




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I just read your reply to my last post. Based on the tone you use it sounds like your one of those guys that give the rest of a bad name. I take no offense to the things you say because there is none to be taken unless you were right. Thing is your dead wrong. It's really none of your business but here's the story anyway. I dated this girl seriously about 13 years ago and we lived together for awhile. We discovered we didn't get along together all that well as a "couple" but when we split up we stayed friends, and she moved on. She dated for awhile, and wound up pregnant. Married or not she was a thrilled because she had been told that due to a medical condition she couldn't even have kids. When he found out she was pregnant that guy ran back home to Louisiana leaving her alone. In my opinion that one fact makes him a sorry SOB. Since then he has never paid a dime of support for her son or any of his other kids in LA that live with his mother. He contacted "his son" just enough times to get the boy wanting to see his real dad and then stopped all contact. He has been in and out of jail numerous times, for verious crimes, and on and on. And no we never told the kid his real dad was a sorry SOB, just that he wasn't a very good person. Anyway, she met someone else, had her son three months premature and then that guy turned out to be abusive. Left with a 6 month old that was on a heart and lung machine, suffering bouts of appenia (sp) and that she had been told would never walk or talk she needed somewhere safe to go that the abusive SOB couldn't find her. Being a good friend I offered to let her move back in at my place. I've got a large house and she lived upstairs and I lived downstairs. We weren't "together" as a couple, she dated, I dated, we each did our own thing and I helped raise her boy as if her were my own til she met someone else and moved on again. Yes I'll always love her but if we were gonna be together it would have already happened so there's no hidden agenda on my side. Money can buy alot of things but believe me I'm no sucker to think it can buy love. I've got the money, I helped raise the boy as my own, therefore if I know what she and I went through all those years recieving no support for him so if I can help her out I'm dang well gonna and I really don't care what anybody thinks. But that's just me, I know how to be a friend to someone be they male or female with no hidden agendas.

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Rusty Scupper

07-13-2007 05:40:07




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 Re: HEY -- NO PARTY--yes, another OT post in reply to NC Wayne, 07-12-2007 15:49:47  
NC,

I appreciate the info you gave regarding hotels and their credit card policy. That is great that you are helping a friend and her boy. In regards to the one guys comments they were rude and uncalled for but you get that in a forum enviornment. It does seem to be more prevalent at this site which is to bad because there is useful info here. Best of luck to you, your friend and her boy.



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Davis In SC

07-12-2007 19:42:48




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 Re: HEY -- NO PARTY--yes, another OT post in reply to NC Wayne, 07-12-2007 15:49:47  
Wayne, I read your original post about the credit card, and as far as I could tell, the main subject was the Hotel, and the CC... I do not see why folks are jumping in your case about your personal relationships..

The bottom line is, you are doing what you feel is the right thing, that is what counts. It took me years to figure this out, but as long as you can answer to yourself and the Lord, that is all that matters..

The son is lucky to have a man like yourself to help with his upbringing.. He is a very polite young man, and it obvious that he thinks the world of you.. IMHO, you are doing the right thing...

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NC wayne

07-12-2007 19:57:48




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 Re: HEY -- NO PARTY--yes, another OT post in reply to Davis In SC, 07-12-2007 19:42:48  
Hey Mark, thanks for the words of wisdom, your absolutely right. This guy was the only one I saw that really didn't "get it" and I guess he thought I was needing him to play relationship therapist. Like I said I take no offense at anything he said, you know the saying about "sticks and stones", and I wouldn't have bothered with a response except that the things he said he just went too far in my opinion and I wanted to set the record straight. Drop me an email sometime. My computer crashed a few weeks back and duped nearly everything. I'm still trying to get everybodies email addresses back like they ought to be and I don't know if I still have yours or not. You should have gotten a message with my new one. It's the same as the old one except it's now @CTC.net instead of AOL.

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Joe in MN

07-12-2007 16:04:42




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 Re: HEY -- NO PARTY--yes, another OT post in reply to NC Wayne, 07-12-2007 15:49:47  
Typically --- your just like about 85% of the rest of this world --- swimming in your own slug, and loving every minute.

when you take your last breath -- your reward will be waiting for you... have fun !



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Greg_Ky

07-12-2007 15:56:40




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 Re: HEY -- NO PARTY--yes, another OT post in reply to NC Wayne, 07-12-2007 15:49:47  
third party image



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KEH

07-12-2007 16:03:46




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 Re: HEY -- NO PARTY--yes, another OT post in reply to Greg_Ky, 07-12-2007 15:56:40  

You are old enough to live your own life, no judgements passed here. I apprecitate hearing about the credit card "policy" in case I ever run up against that problem.

KEH



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Hoosier JD

07-12-2007 17:58:07




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 Re: HEY -- NO PARTY--yes, another OT post in reply to KEH, 07-12-2007 16:03:46  
Hey NC....wish there were more people like you in the world. Seems like no matter what year you were born, you're "Old School" and I like that.

Later Mike



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