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Lanse · Nov 23, 2009

Hey yall...

A few weeks ago, i was planning on showing up down at the farm and having some time to work on the trucks and the tractors... Everything was set in stone so i thought, but my mom decides going and getting laid in toledo was more fun...

Im still not in a "talking" mood over that...

This summer i learned that whole side of my family has two different sides... The woman runs a seminary and hundreds of people think shes a saint, but she doesnt even pay child support.

Wonderful.

Rant over... Anyway... Im going back down on wendsday night and coming up on sunday... I hope theres still internet down there... But i cant make any promises...

My second farm truck, a 1992 Chevy S10 is getting delivered finally... Its totaled.. But comes with the parts to fix it... Thats gonna be fun

I hope i can get the allises and the ranger running too...

Who am i kidding... I probabally wont get anywhere...

Anyway, wish me luck.. I dont post much... But i still check in here every couple days or so... I really do miss this place

Fudpucker · Nov 23, 2009

Hang in there Lanse. I miss reading about all of your adventures. Good luck with whatever you get to work on.

kruser · Nov 23, 2009

Lanse,
GLAD YOU ARE BACK - We have been looking for you!
Have a Happy Thanksgiving!

Jim

Mike Henry · Nov 23, 2009

I am another member that misses your posts. Understand the unhappy home life sounds like my life 25 yrs ago when I was your age. Good news is Im sure you will perservere as I did and prove that not all children that have parents that arent ideal can do well themselves if they desire. Good luck on your weekends plans.

Janicholson · Nov 23, 2009

Old people are a lot like old tractors.
They can be restored at a price that is usually not what they are worth. They are great if healthy and pulling their weight.
Dressed up and painted they can be shown off at the fair. High maintenance is usually the status quo.
Just don't put primer under lipstick. and let them check their own oil. If they wind up like a 3dollar watch they are going to blow. Stay clear.!!!! (that is the best analogy i can come up with) good luck and patience----Jim

Old Roy · Nov 23, 2009

Lance Glad you stopped in I missed your adventures as well.

Man you sure make it hard to let us give you advice.
Maybe because you have the blood of your paternal parents. no matter how you bad mouth them [or one or the other] . If it weren't for them you would not be. Therefor we would not have the pleasure of knowing you.

Mom will always be Mom & Dad will always be Dad.
There is no one out here can replace them.

Maybe someday you will get to understand this

Be thankful that they have given you life so you can live a life, and the opportunity to make one for yourself.

At your age and in the health you have, it's just the matter of choosing the right direction, and you'll have the world by the tail.

Old Roy · Nov 23, 2009

I just over look him Suds doin the talkin.
got a short in his brain. stuck on s+x and booze.

Darned word investigator GRRrrr !!

Anonymous-0 · Nov 23, 2009

you are a fine young man don,t get too upset with your mom, just do the best that YOU can do, and remember no one is perfect.

Anonymous-0 · Nov 23, 2009

Mom is like a old tractor, you must understand how it works, and why it acts the way it does. Anyone can put down another, but it is often very hard to understand a troubled soul. Perhaps someday all will be well.

Regardless what you think now, this will help make you stronger, and a better person in the end. You are fortunate to have the ability to know right from wrong--not real comon at your age, bet you never learned that out of a book either.

Good luck guy, keep us up to date. I can't think anyone would take railheads coment serious, everyone needs to lighten up, and for goodness sake learn how to laugh and enjoy life.

Lanse · Nov 23, 2009

Thanks man!!! You too :-D

Lanse · Nov 23, 2009

Good luck with that... I could give it to you, but youde never talk to her...

It takes literally days to weeks to reach her... Shes too busy to talk to her own family most of the time...

Uhh....

Haha.... But that did make me laugh

Lanse · Nov 23, 2009

Thanks Mike

kyplowboy · Nov 23, 2009

Glad you are doing ok. Hope every thing works out. Miss have'n you round here, place just ain't the same with out your pics.

Dave

Paul from MN · Nov 24, 2009

Hey, Lanse. Thanks for checking in here. Glad to know you are OK, but wish your Mom was doing a better job.

Hope you have a happy Thanksgiving.

steve n carol · Nov 24, 2009

Good to hear from you, Lanse!

Some of these guys gave you some [u:e53d901d7b]good[/u:e53d901d7b] advice!!

I'm 55 now and learned something from my wife a few years back.... I did something off the wall. Later I asked if I had embarrassed her, she said, "no, not at all. I knew you were the way you are when I married you. I don't try or plan to change you. You are the way you are and that's it".

Now, she has established that point several times since then. "doesn't try to change anyone". We are who we are. We can improve ourselves, or not... We make that choice, and we live with it. Parents..... Same. They are who they are. Accept it. Respect it...... 2 things will happen, (1)- someday they will be gone and you won't have to deal with it. (2)- someday you'll be that age, maybe a parent yourself :shock:
But for now.... U-B-U! 8)
Just think, how boring a place this world would be if we were all just like me!! (or you), or all of us were just like 'de-railed head'. :?

Love ya like you were my own son!!! sl

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