Our parents moved to assisted living almost 2 years ago. The house will never be lived in again ever. Do to urbanization close by. I have been cleaning out their house. I have a brother who is the youngest of us 4. He is getting upset because he doesn't want a memory of the house being empty. I emptied out the 2nd floor and he has taken items back up there. He wants things to be done fair he once said. He has said he thinks mom and dad are coming back. He thinks we should repair the city water line between the house and meter so we can have water in the house (then pay to heat it for $300 a month on natural gas). Then I hear from a 3rd party that the farmer who farms the farm also baled straw off our farm then delivered it and handed my brother the money and my brother didn't pay him for delivering it. My brother has been mowing the grass for years but never trims and he doesn't want any one else to touch the lawn. He won't even let his 11 year old son on the mower. I've had his son up this summer serveral times to mow my lawn and he did great. I have gotten my 2 brother and sister together and asked if they want anything. We started throwing things in the trash and the one brother said "I'll give you all $50 a piece to let everything set where it is"
MY BROTHER IS IN TOTAL DENIAL...I guess it'll come to him in time. He's just unhappy where he's living at the present (last 20 yrs) is why he's this way...living in the past.
MY BROTHER IS IN TOTAL DENIAL...I guess it'll come to him in time. He's just unhappy where he's living at the present (last 20 yrs) is why he's this way...living in the past.