Evidently I have bought some bad mini-fuses. Hooked the trailer up the other night as we had to take a young bull in for testing. Had a trailer brake signal so I went underneath to the only spot where a three wires run together. Checked them, no problems, nothing under the hood after changing those relays out either. Went and pulled #6 fuse, has some discoloration so changed it, still nothing, checked fuse again, discoloration on the prongs again, changed that one, proceeded to blow. Put a fuse from another pack in, all the lights worked as they were supposed too. Run the bull in Saturday, no issues with anything, so hope it was a bad fuse batch. Thanks again for all the advice.