(quoted from post at 18:04:05 11/12/15) I'm a vet but just a peace timer. Learned a trade repairing army trucks. Always tore into them as far as they would allow and farther some times. I thought all wars were over when I enlisted. Well, I was 18. Problem I have is things like this. My son, a teacher doing his last year before hanging it up, has a part time job at a bait and tackle shop where they build fishing rods. Really nice ones and make most for other outfits. He likes doing that kind of work very much. One of the brother owners is a Afghanistan vet and lately has been having severe problems. He went to the VA again but apparently didn't get much satisfaction. My son said he was going over to visit him last night to see how he is doing. This kind of stuff is what is wrong. The guy needs serious help but doesn't know where to turn. He is looking for help, not in denial.
Hi, I may have miscued a bit on the thread earlier, but to go on a tangent again:
Any Vet can call, 24-7/365 to the crisis line, and they may be able to help out.
!!!Important!!! First thing to say:
"I'm not suicidal or homicidal, I just need to talk to someone"
(Unless, you are.) They may be able to help, where the local VA has failed.
Please have him at least try calling, I have, and not ashamed to admit it, and have received assistance.
The number:
1-800-273-8255 Press '1' for veterans.
Please urge my brother in arms to call,
it doesn't have to be a psyche issue, either.
Also maybe contact your local VFW and/or American Legion, and a VSO if there's one in the area.
He's not alone. Reply back if need be, I will post my email for him to contact me, but I'm just a vet, not a certified counselor or anything like that. If the system ain't working for him, maybe I can come up with some ideas, etc.
We lose one vet to suicide every 65 minutes.
I'm damn near there some days.
There's other ways.