On June 3rd this year my dad called me and said he had to call an ambulance for my mom. She got up and said she couldn't breath and had chest pain. They still live on the farm where I was raised along with my two brothers and one sister. Turned out she had what they call a "Pulmonary Embolism" blood clot to the lung. She was ICMU (just a step under ICU) for 4 days then moved to a convalescent center so she could learn to walk again. Her condition thru therapy is improving but I'm not sure if she will ever get to come home. Her or dad really can't take care of themselves any more. Dad will be 85 in August. The convalescent center is calling a meeting for the family asking us to come in and discuss her situation on this Thursday. She turned 85 on March 22nd and really hasn't felt good or looked good all spring. Actually after getting oxygen and blood thinner she is looking better than she has in a long time. It's hard telling them they need to move into an assisted living facility. They're afraid their dignity will be taken away.
I'm not one for usually sharing this family information but I'm sure there are many of you that are going thru this or already have and I just wanted to share my story.
I'm not one for usually sharing this family information but I'm sure there are many of you that are going thru this or already have and I just wanted to share my story.